Cheating has always come down to unhappy relationships, ungrateful partners and a desire to seek something you can't find at home.Let's uncover some common emotional issues that are leading partners astray.
1.FEELING UNLOVED
Some partners use 'love languages' to describe how people express affection to one another. Some couple communicate more verbally by saying nice things,whereas others might prefer to express affection physically by cuddling or kissing.If your love language is different to your partners that can leave you feeling unloved and that's a recipe for cheating.
2.INSECURITY
Affairs can also arise from personal insecurities. When one person in a relationship lack self esteem, it could be from a number of factors such as"wanting to feel young again ",age,just to mention a few.
3.SEXUAL SATISFACTION.
when there are issues in the bedroom or couple isn't having sex,it can lead to one party seeking sexual satisfaction elsewhere.
An affair doesn't have to mean the end of your relationship.Forgive your partner if he or she truly regrets what has happened and willing to end the affair.
Cheating is the most disgusting, hurtful,and disrespectful thing you could do to someone you love.Don't ruin that very relationship over some other person that you didn't take the time to build that relationship with.Cheating is a shameful act. DON'T DO IT.
Saturday, 14 April 2018
Thursday, 12 April 2018
Coping with a heartbreak
Nursing a broken heart is an excruciating experience. Once you can accept what happened, and prepare to take care of your self and your emotions, you'll be able to move on and grow past it.
Accepting what has happened.
1.Face your heartbreak head on.You've been hurt and you feel sad.These are normal emotions you will have to experience to become better.Stop saying "I'm fine" when your not.pretending about your emotions makes it worse.Be honest to your self.
2.crying is good and a healthy way to express extreme feelings.Trust me I've been there and crying helps improve your mood and reduces pain.So if you feel like crying, let the tears out.
3.Examine your relationship,think about what went wrong and why you two broke up.there is always a reason, also think about what you liked in the relationship, and what you would want to look for in a future partner.
4.Talk to someone else,you are not alone in the world,look for a trusted friend,advisor or a close relative and tell them how you feel.Sometimes just getting your feelings off your chest can help you work through them.
Dearest sister,brother and friend,smile more,worry less and always forgive because is the only way you can feel love again.
Accepting what has happened.
1.Face your heartbreak head on.You've been hurt and you feel sad.These are normal emotions you will have to experience to become better.Stop saying "I'm fine" when your not.pretending about your emotions makes it worse.Be honest to your self.
2.crying is good and a healthy way to express extreme feelings.Trust me I've been there and crying helps improve your mood and reduces pain.So if you feel like crying, let the tears out.
3.Examine your relationship,think about what went wrong and why you two broke up.there is always a reason, also think about what you liked in the relationship, and what you would want to look for in a future partner.
4.Talk to someone else,you are not alone in the world,look for a trusted friend,advisor or a close relative and tell them how you feel.Sometimes just getting your feelings off your chest can help you work through them.
Dearest sister,brother and friend,smile more,worry less and always forgive because is the only way you can feel love again.
Wednesday, 11 April 2018
Sex and marriage part 2
People may think it is a difficult task to spice up their sex life. But trust me, it is much simpler than you think. You do not need to strain your muscles, all you need is the right attitude and everything will fall in place. It works best if both spouses are on the same page about improving their intimacy. Let's look at this few points
1. Make a point to try new sexual positions each time you have sex.
2. Be in shape,working out will increase your libido and make you feel good about your body.
3. Some partners enjoy dirty talk,its a huge turn on for them. It can seem a bit strange at first but that's normal.
4. Stay healthy, you need to take care of your physical looks as well as your oral health.
5. Don't be embarrassed to talk to your Doctor about any medical issue affecting you in the bedroom.
6. Do something fun or exciting with your partner, your chances of having sex later increased if you have fun together.
Above all, if the sexual intimacy in your marriage is lacking, do not ignore, talk with each other about your feelings and concerns whether a sexual issue or something else that's important for your marriage.
Marriage is a beautiful Union irrespective of the challenges that comes with it. l will make my marriage work and enjoy every blessings the comes with it...
Make yours work!
1. Make a point to try new sexual positions each time you have sex.
2. Be in shape,working out will increase your libido and make you feel good about your body.
3. Some partners enjoy dirty talk,its a huge turn on for them. It can seem a bit strange at first but that's normal.
4. Stay healthy, you need to take care of your physical looks as well as your oral health.
5. Don't be embarrassed to talk to your Doctor about any medical issue affecting you in the bedroom.
6. Do something fun or exciting with your partner, your chances of having sex later increased if you have fun together.
Above all, if the sexual intimacy in your marriage is lacking, do not ignore, talk with each other about your feelings and concerns whether a sexual issue or something else that's important for your marriage.
Marriage is a beautiful Union irrespective of the challenges that comes with it. l will make my marriage work and enjoy every blessings the comes with it...
Make yours work!
Thursday, 5 April 2018
Sex and Marriage
There are many factors that contributes to a happy marriage.Besides the inexplicable love.
Before we decide to spend our lives with someone,we look for compassion, common interest, chemistry,the list is endless. All these can loose its meaning simply because one specific area of your relationship isn't working.
This is what sex does.
Sex is the engine oil that keeps the "car" marriage running smoothly, your sex life may be good but life change's,Responsibilities increases, kids come,even physical changes may set in,maybe your wife gained a few pounds or your husband developed a pot belly.All these probably affected your sexual life.As a wife or husband, what are the things you do to spice up your relationship in instances like these? Do you just complain without any actions,in my next write up we will delve more into that.
Merilyn Monroe says "we are all born sexual creatures, thank God,but it's a pity so many people despise and crush this natural gift".
Before we decide to spend our lives with someone,we look for compassion, common interest, chemistry,the list is endless. All these can loose its meaning simply because one specific area of your relationship isn't working.
This is what sex does.
Sex is the engine oil that keeps the "car" marriage running smoothly, your sex life may be good but life change's,Responsibilities increases, kids come,even physical changes may set in,maybe your wife gained a few pounds or your husband developed a pot belly.All these probably affected your sexual life.As a wife or husband, what are the things you do to spice up your relationship in instances like these? Do you just complain without any actions,in my next write up we will delve more into that.
Merilyn Monroe says "we are all born sexual creatures, thank God,but it's a pity so many people despise and crush this natural gift".
Tuesday, 27 March 2018
What do you look out for in a relationship?
Sometimes we get so caught up in the qualities we're looking for in a person that we forget there is a big difference between dating a great person and finding a great partner. A great partner is someone who values and appreciate the meaning of compromise, someone who realizes that his happiness is affected by your own and will do whatever it takes to get your relationship to a place of mutual respect and understanding,because he knows that the ultimate goal is for two people to be happy not just one.A true partnership is about both people being mindful of each others needs,wants and working together to create a happier and a healthier relationship.
I want to see my partner as a friend, a companion and a lover.Someone who knows the real meaning of being a partner not just a bedmates.
Billy Chapata says "Attraction is common what is rare is having someone who wants to grow and build with you.A soul partner, A soul confidante and A soul mate.
I want to see my partner as a friend, a companion and a lover.Someone who knows the real meaning of being a partner not just a bedmates.
Billy Chapata says "Attraction is common what is rare is having someone who wants to grow and build with you.A soul partner, A soul confidante and A soul mate.
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