Saturday, 14 April 2018

CHEATING

    Cheating has always come down to unhappy relationships, ungrateful partners and a desire to seek something you can't find at home.Let's uncover some common emotional issues that are leading partners astray.
     
1.FEELING UNLOVED

Some partners use 'love languages' to describe how people express affection to one another. Some couple communicate more verbally by saying nice things,whereas others might prefer to express affection physically by cuddling or kissing.If your love language is different to your partners that can leave you feeling unloved and that's a recipe for cheating.

2.INSECURITY

Affairs can also arise from personal insecurities. When one person in a relationship lack self esteem, it could be from a number of factors such as"wanting to feel young again ",age,just to mention a few.

3.SEXUAL SATISFACTION.

when there are issues in the bedroom or couple isn't having sex,it can lead to one party seeking sexual satisfaction elsewhere.

      An affair doesn't have to mean the end of your relationship.Forgive your partner if he or she truly regrets what has happened and willing to end the affair.
      Cheating is the most disgusting, hurtful,and disrespectful thing you could do to someone you love.Don't ruin that very relationship over some other person that you didn't take the time to build that relationship with.Cheating is a shameful act.        DON'T DO IT.

33 comments:

  1. I feel you fall victim in any of the category you should talk to your partner (communication) rather than cheat! Thanks for the advices. Keep them coming! πŸ‘πŸ½

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  2. Hmmm number one is the major reason I think

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  3. It hurts very much to be cheated on, I'm scared to fall in love sometimes because of this cheating issue. God help me build a faithful relationship and marriage

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  4. Always learning so much from your post. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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  5. Hmmm, I would say just play smart 😜😜😌😌, cheat but don't get caught

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  6. One other reason is when one party does not really settle issues very well with old lover before getting married to someone whom he or she might have gotten married to because of pregnancy or any other issue.

    And partners especially women who for one reason or the other or ego started depriving their husbands respect and giving them reason to find solace elsewhere.
    But in all communication to express our displeasure will help.

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    1. Hmmmmmmm
      I totally agree......communication is the key

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  7. For better or for worse. This should tell us that irrespective of the above one has to be faithful.

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  8. Lovely piece, very educative. Where I come from, number 3 seem to be a norm

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  9. Please the 'relationship' nu boyfriend/girlfriend dey inside?

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  10. I guess the first point matters here much. Great piece from u my Dear Annie

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  11. Cheating - sometimes, one never knows how to react until being faced with such issue. The Realities of life.

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  12. I think one other reason is respected and we must also appreciate what we have.

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  13. Thanks for the advise ,cheating is disgusting and it really hurts.

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  14. 🀨🀨🀨

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  15. As far as men think marrying a woman is like a favour done her men will continue to cheat, women learned to cheat from men. Women grow by love.

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